IT is EXTREMELY RARE to find a couple who agree on their health. Most if not all of my customers over the years have problems in the house. Many woman and even men, must HIDE their herbs from their nagging spouse.
To be equally yoked is not a easy thing in this world, to be, you must have allowed God 100% control, otherwise odds are, you did the choosing based on all the WRONG reasons and ended in conflicks the rest of your life; this is why the Bible suggest you may be better off living in another building that fighting with your spouse and why PAUL suggested you NEVER EVER have a thought of the opposite sex. He was able to acheive this goal because his lips never touched meat. The meat eater is a sex addict, just as he is a meat addict and seeks an ill life. The consumptions of proteins leads to death down many differant avenues.
For one person to eat meat and the other not in the same house is asking for violence sooner than later, unless one is extremely submissive, which all your LOCAL CHURCHES via BIG BROTHER (pope)teaches the little girls to be.
I will guess I know as many men that hide their herbs from their wives as I knoe women that hide their herbs from their husbands.
Luckily your not responsible for their sins and the only motto is to wait until they pass on and if desired get a new mate where better yoked. As loved ones you want them to have better health, but when they are so poisoned that they will hate you for wanting to help them, they will be the only ones to deal with their maker and pay the proper penalties.
The BIBLE makes it very plain. Your either HOT or COLD... To give in to bad things makes you warm, in that your doing what you consider EVIL and GOD hands out the hardest lessons to those that participate in things that they "KNOW" to be against NATURE.
Some spouses come around in time and more seek more and more drugs and choose death over life. You can lead a horse to water, but near impossible to make him drink, aso it is with health and your mate. They may "FAKE" it at times when forced to, but until they LEARN, they will never believe and do it correct. Many a spouce serves their children foods that kill, ONLY because they don't want to make waves with their spouse. The grave yards are full of such children.
All most can do, is live by example and trust in GOD to get you through the hard times. God makes it clear, it is not your job to change another person, each comes to God on his own, each responsible for his or her actions. Nature hands out justice pure as white snow, no sin escapes punishment, no, NOT ONE!