I sat here and waisted probably a good hour reading everyones responses. All I heard was people complaining about their spouses. Sure its good to vent your frustration, there is more room out than there is in. However the only person that can make a difference is your SPOUSE. You must go to that person that you have a problem with . Somehow you have to communicate with this person your genuine concern about their health. What effects one effects the other, bottom line! You chose to marry this person and obviously you have something in common or you would not have married. It is OUR duty to one another to educate. NOTHING will change by keeping our mouths shut! I personally will talk to everyone about what I have learned. By keeping my mouth shut and waiting for someone to die [when I have info that can change their lives], I would be just a guilty as those doctors prescribing poison. I do not want that persons blood on my hands. Don't give up the fight that is what THEY want a passive society. Look where it has got us thus far! Remember people have to be de-programmed, for some that may take a life time. If there is one thing I know love conquers all and if you truley love this person you must and will find a way! I personally would pray about it and ask for strength and wisdom. So many people forget the power of prayer. And yes I'm married and drive my wife crazy at times, but she listens to me because I listen to her. I truly love and respect my wife. She's the one with the "smarts". I know when I push too much there is an opposing reaction so I ease off. I keep a lot of reading material around and let her find it on her own. And if all fails see a marriage counselor.