'I have yet to find anyone to help me' I guess this is common sense that people on here CAN'T help you. We are lay people not medical doctors. Why haven't you seen a dermatologist yet? It sounds that you have a serious problem with your scalp. All of those things you mentioned that you used are ok for people who Already have healthy scalp and want to maintain that. If you have pathological conditions of the scalp you will have to seek medical advice. Stop listening to people on here tell you to not see a doctor. You are listening to them and still facing the same problems.