Hi! Though what God told you sounds so strict and even fanatical--who am I to judge that?
First of all, Only God knows the reasons WHY in your case, He led you to not get involved in your family, etc. Maybe they would have been a bad influence for you spiritually and physically at this time. Im sure God wants you to Love them- but not to mix in with them.
It seems in my life , God leads me much the same, but He seperates me only for a period of time-- til I can become set apart inside and more full of His Spirit.
THEN, he adds back what he seperated me from-- only I'm not under inner bonds from that relationship this time.
It's very hard to explain. God's ways are definitly considered psycho by modern man.
You really can't share with folks much about this.
Try telling people why you are still a virgin too. I am not a virgin, so I truly admire your'e obedience in that part of your life.
Modern civilization makes it seem like you have a "screw loose" if you are still a virgin-- especially if you are a guy who is a virgin. Maybe it just means you are being obedient to the convictions God placed in you.
There is a saying, "Others may, but you cannot". God may require something more out of someone , but not the same from another.