I will get out more and do things that interest me, right now there is our annual art fair going on, I think I will go :) a night class sounds good too.
I "worked" on myself for the last two years on self improvement things, read this book and that, did this and that, changed my diet and exercise, reflected on who I am and what I would like quite often.
When I wasn't looking for anybody after my boyfriend died, still nobody approached me or was interested, so I gave up the notion of "if you're not looking for him, he will come" cuz that didn't happen in my case, maybe because I was so devestated and depressed during that time and I was sending out that signal.
Thanks! I will just go and do things that interest me, even though I don't like to go out alone, I'll forget I'm alone and have fun anyway. I'll post what happens by doing this.