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Re: sex after 40 by #42412 ..... Sex & Sexual Health Forum

Date:   4/11/2005 8:46:38 AM ( 18 years ago ago)
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So! now that you've proven that your immaturity is only rivalled by your ignorance and insensitivity, maybe you should consider that this is a SUPPORT forum, not a female bashing site. If you're trying to convince me that my magical years for sex are between the ripe ages of 17 - 20 and that beyond that I better invest as much as possible in plastic surgery to keep a man, I have news for you... I'd rather spend my life alone than with any man who puts so much importance on meaningless values.

I'm better in bed now, at 30, than I was 10 or 12 years ago -- even though I've had a child and my butt's a little bigger than it was then and my boobs sag a little bit -- you know what? The sex is so much better because now I'm a self-confident, comfortable, sexually expressive WOMAN not a self-conscious, awkward, sexually inexperienced little girl, and a woman needs a MAN, not a shallow little BOY.

I don't disagree with all your postings about diet but that won't keep you young forever and it will most likely keep you so obsessed with staying young that you forget how to live. It really sounds to me like you may have appearance issues with yourself and some really serious relationship issues. If you think you';re going to have a lasting meaningful relationship with an 18 year old when you're 50 -- I hope you're really rich because that's the only way it's going to happen and believe me, the only meaning there will be the limit on your credit cards. Women in their 30's and 40's have a wealth of experience, knowledge, and comfort that an 18 year old girl envies -- she may have the tight butt and perky boobs but she's self concsious, confused, and emotionally immature. Still trying to use the butt and the boobs to find true love.

You've got so much to learn, I don't even know where to begin, but a good start for you would be to open your mind and sit down and talk with an older woman and do some listening.

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