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Re: Re: My wifes best friend has put the hard word on me! HELP by Dusan ..... Relationship Forum # 2 [Archive]

Date:   10/10/2003 10:52:46 AM ( 19 years ago ago)
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My first suggestion would have been:
"Just forget it ever happened".

BUT then,

Based on the latest development, I say:
"Talk to your wife about it."

Especially, if your wife has tendency to jealousy.

That woman is not 100% OK in her mind, she is not good wife, not a good friend, not a good person ... and based on that ... she may even try to hurt you and your marriage, or your wife.
You don't need that kind of friendship, and you don't need to be loyal to her, even if you already gave your word and said that you will not talk about it with your wife.

You need your wife to know all details about this as soon as possible, so that she doesn't feel like you are hiding something, or that you have been hiding something from her, or that you have a reason to hide something.

Some women can't believe that man would say "NO" to a "free" sex.

Now, all that still doesn't mean that your friend (husband of that woman) ever need to know about his wife's behaviour.

It may be that she has never behaved before like that, and that she will never behave like that later. It is certainly not yours to interfere other people's marriage.

Nothing happened, and it should stay that way, but your wife should know all the details, just for the sake of your own marriage.



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