Secrets of the Attractiveness of Older Women by Savagegrace ..... Relationship Support Forum
Date: 7/23/2007 10:56:54 AM ( 14 years ago ago)
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Lots of really good stuff on this thread.
As a man who has always enjoyed “older” women perhaps I can add some more perspectives.
As a full cognitive I can usually sense a person’s true condition.
While most can sense desperation in terms of the clock is running out for kids, being “alone” or who will take care of me.
Few understand or can sense, the “proper” perspective a person should have for living.
We are all ephemeral, our world’s are connected by bridges, this is how we are tied together.
Should I die tomorrow your world will sustain you.
Have you created a world? And is it of your own choosing?
Or are you dependant and needy of others, expecting to inhabit another’s world?
Do you think people are vending machines? Should I give you tat, will you give me tit? (pun intended)
I do not want to be needed, I want to be enjoyed.
I do not want to need you, I want to enjoy you.
What we have enhances our bridge, our connection.
But at the end of the day, while most agree something shared is always better, we are alone.
It is the fear of being alone with ourselves that can make us “ugly” to other people.
Though they may have the same fear.
I feel the beauty of a “mature” woman is the display of “I shall not allow concerns of what might be, to overwhelm me living today”.
And of course "Can I share my world with you, for I think I have made a beautiful one"
Mature women's worlds are usually much more beautiful....;-)
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