Just wondering bcauase last night i totally did it with Conaan Obrien in my dream...weird! Who have u had a sex dream about. I think it’s so strange.   [End]
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I don’t think having him sleep with some other girl is the answer! It sounds like he really likes you/loves you. To sleep with you would be awesome for him..it would be making love to him. Where as it sounds like to you..it would just be sex. i don’t know, I would try to tell him the truth. Even tell him that you think sex will ruin your friendship. He sounds like a guy that will love you no matter what, are you sure you don’t like him as much as he likes you? Well good luck.   [End]
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It really depends if it is flaccid or erect. It also depends if it is on a man or boy. It can also depend on how you use it. Remember it isn’t the size that counts, but how you use it that counts!!!!    [End]
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I’m trying not to have sex or even really makeout...until i’m really in a serious relationship. And it’s been about a little over a month. Lately i’ve been really moody and snapping. Is it possible that i could be having somekind of withdrawl symptoms going on?   [End]
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It just doesn’t sound like she’s into it in my opinion. She has to really want it to enjoy it.   [End]
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Right on! And its even better when the lady loves you back. Women also get frisky before & after that time of the month, so that’s at least two times you’re just about guaranteed some nookie!   [End]
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Ok, i’ve been with my bf for about a year. So, we’re lying in bed one night and talking about when we first started to date. He tells me that before we even got serious (were and item..before we even started kissing) he would masturbate to the thought of me. I didn’t know what to say to that..”thanks”...”how sweet”..? Should i feel violated? I mean, it just got me thinking about why he was dating me..was is because he liked me or because he was sexually attracted to me..both? Anyhow i guess my question is, is it normal for a person to masturbate while thinking about someone they ...
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Thanks! Yeah i am his present. It is an isolated incident.   [End]
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As my bf and i were leaving a resturant he says ”hey Deidra wait up” (totally not my name)as he was getting the check paid. I say ”what did you just call me?” and he didn’t even realize he had done it. He said he just wanted to get me to hold up really fast so he didn’t have time to think the phrase through. He went out with Deidra before me and even has a son with her. She has been this pain in my side because she will always be in his life. Question is does it mean something that he called me his ex-gf’s name..and subconciously at that? He went with her for 4 years and we’ve been ...
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Ok and today i just dreamt about my bf again..first he didn’t want to kiss me. Then he made a sexual gesture towards me that obviously wasn’t appropriate for where we were, but he did it anyway because he wanted it (in his parents kitchen with family around). Geese this sounds so bizarre. Why do i keep dreaming of my bflike this? Maybe i just dreamt this last one because i was thinking of the first one. I will read that forum from a few pages back..thanks for responding!   [End]
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Ok, me and my bf have been together seriously since february if this makes a difference. Last night i had a dream that he was acting really weird, like saying random mean things to me and other people. I dreamed that i was really afraid of him, well in my dream he raped me. And it was necessarrily violent..but i dreamt i didn’t want to have sex but he did it anyway..knowing i didn’t want to. Also in my dream he kicked in the side of my car and wrote a demeaning note. I’ve never been raped or abused. What does this mean?? Anyone have any ideas.   [End]
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thank you so much for your response. good luck in your relationship with your husband.   [End]
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My gut instinct told me all that you have said..it’s just hard to let go. Thanks for your opinions it means alot.   [End]
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It’s happened at different times during the sex, not just when i cllmax. Once my hands went numb and were all tingly..a couple times my legs have become weak and tingly. I dunno i just was wondering if it was normal. It’s kind of nice..feels hecka good..it’s just weird to me for some reason. I would say he’s average..like 6” long and 2” diam erect.   [End]
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I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost 9 months. Everything has been perfect up until recently. He has a temper and sometimes becomes a different person. He shuts me out and is becomes mean to other people. He’s never hit anyone or me. In general he doesn’t treat other’s nice if he doesn’t like them. i am a polar opposite of he, I want to change him. Is it possible to change a person in this way? I want our relationship to work, but for that to happen he needs to make a 360. I’ve talked to him a lot and he says he wants me to always tell him if he’s done something wrong so h ...
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Me and my man have been sleeping together since april and once and a while i can’t really take it. It feels sooo good, but it’s like it’s too much..maybe he’s too big for me or something (sorry if this is kind of graphic)? He was entering me from behind the other night and i could hardly keep conscience (sp?). i can’t quite describe it but has this ever happened to any other ladies? Is it ok? Feedback appreciated!   [End]
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This person makes a valid point. You should be careful not to jeapordize your relationship with your husband. If i were your friend i would want you to tell me about my fiance’. Who cares if it was just a fling..if he cheated while dating me ever at all i need to know about it. Just so we can work it out or so i can tell him to get lost!   [End]
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