Thank you so much!! It really helps to hear that someone else has been through a similar situation. Most of the time I just get caught up in the mental part of it all and simply end up talking myself out of going through with it. But I guess if I still question it this much I might as well just wait until I feel I can handle it all... Thanks again!   [End]
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I am a 22 year old virgin. Yes, I know it is very rare to find my type. But I’m not saving myself for marriage, just for someone who’s worth all the trouble and possible consequences. I am by no means conservative. I do have knowledge and know exactly what I want to do, just not for the first time. I want the first time to be more educational than experimental. However, I do have two main problems, I freak myself out when I do have the opportunity which quickly snuffs the pleasure for me completely. And secondly, I know 16 year olds who have more experience than I do, and it intimidates me ...
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Marijuana should have been legal way before alcohol. I’ve always believed that and still do. I do have what some call an addiction to that wonderful little plant provided by Mother Nature. However, I feel I can justify myself using it when I have seen numerous counselors, psychologists, and several psychiatrists for my apparent depression, and cutting issues. They consistently reply with a text-book answer of, ”you need different and better coping mechanisms.” The ones you have now are ”wrong.” First of all, does that sound at all supportive? Especially for a person who was forced to reci ...
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