Some things you said in your post like ”...this guy I just met a few weeks ago...” and ”...I am only 20...” has me concerned. Yes, I think you should get rid of this guy ASAP, but equally as important, you might want to use this as a learning experience and be a bit more decerning in your dating practices of sleeping with people you have only recently met. I am not trying to judge you, but we have all been there in our younger days. Some times I wonder how I made it through those years without some thing really bad happening to me. (rape, disease, unwanted pregnancy, emotional trauma ec ...
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Hey BC/05...nice to see your back. Where have you been? Vacation? Book deal? Tired of having disappearing posts?:) This post was a particularly good one of yours. Keep up the good work!   [End]
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Yea, I have been wondering what happened to you too...vacation? book deal? tired of disappearing posts? And the name change? Missed you-glad you are back.   [End]
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My husband works with a lovely, attractive, intelligent woman who is very aware of her looks (gets the hair dyed, works out, dresses nice) BUT, she has the facial hair thing going on that is really distracting! She has these black hairs that come out radomly under her lip, the side of her face. She must know about it b/c sometimes they are there and other times she has removed them somehow. I have often wondered why she doesn’t take care of this all the time as she is such an attractive person and these rogue hairs are distracting. At any rate, I think BC has hit on a stellar idea. Mak ...
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You want to marry someone that you have to ”summarize” information for b/c he can’t maintain an ”interest” in something that should be helpful to your relationship? Sounds like you are willing to do the heavy lifting in this relationship and that is not exactly a recipe for success. I recommend seeing a counselor about your different communication styles and the way you each handle conflict. I gar.un.tee you that any therapist worth his/her salt will tell you that saying the things your beloved has said to you in a conflict would not qualify as acceptable. ( I don’t know what you have s ...
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Have you been checked for yeast infections or just high levels of yeast? I know that when I have yeast infections I can have similar symptoms as a bladder infection. Also, you can have an ”over active” bladder that contracts too much and causes a bad burning sensation without having any infection. (I have had periods of constant bladder infections and this other over active thing throughout the years). This is a treatable condition with a type of muscle relaxer. You may want to ask your doctor about it. One more thought...are you using a lubricant or spermacide? Some people are hightly ...
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My husband, 46ys old, has noticed the same thing-a decrease in volume and ejaculatory ’force’.Sex drive and desire is basically the same, but he has had some slight changes in hardness and quantity of wet stuff. he thinks it is just part of normal aging process-he isn’t necessarily happy about it....maybe it is like that old saying...”the mind is willing but the body is weak”! Anyone have other experiences to add?   [End]
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Excellent posts from 7320 and 33045! My husband has been saying for years that masturbation and frequent sex is key to prostate health, but I didn’t really know why (I just thought he was horny!lol) Seriously, those were great posts and that is what this forum is about! Keep it up! Uh,..er, I mean,keep up the good work!! :)   [End]
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No, on the contrary, the reports are saying to use or lose it! In other words, keeping sexually active throughout your life (not just under 40 but continually through golden years)helps to keep the prostate healthy. Also, masturbation won’t cause blindness either! lol ;) Good luck!   [End]
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The rest of us aren’t making any progress with Sixteengirl and her porn obsession. I can’t tell if she is serious, or just trying to get a rise (no pun intended) out of people. Bush/cheney you are welcome to give your two cents worth. Your no-nonsense verbage maybe what she needs to hear. Be careful, though, you won’t be able to tell her what you REALLY think or your post will disappear for not ”being supportive”. :(   [End]
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tired: You have been given some really good advice from people who wish you well. I notice you haven’t responded...Since you are able to post, I assume you have access to a computer? There is a world of help out there on the net. Talking in this forum may be the first step, but there is more, much more out there. It is okay to be tired. It is not okay to be destructive and selfish and that is what you would be if you acted out on suicidal thoughts. My prayers are with you. God bless.   [End]
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Sixteen girl-33045 gave you some very good, well thought out information about the p 0 r n industry (and I do mean INDUSTRY/ENTERTAINMENT) and you totally ignored most of it. Your basic question of why most sixteen year old GIRLS aren’t interested in p 0 r n is becauese they are pursing interests, hobbies and social interactions appropriate to SIXTEEN YEAR OLD GIRLS. They are more interested in dating, part time jobs, the prom, fashion and friends. Frankly, I don’t even think 16 year olds should be on this site. I believe you are too young and don’t know as much about the world as you ...
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Oh, that’s funny! I guess I could see that as being a potential problem. So, what did you do? How do you make up for something like that? lol! Would you ever do it again (or I guess a better question is would SHE ever do it again)?   [End]
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Dennyooo, tried to email you 2x with no luck. Would prefer you post on this board, but understand if you are uncomfortable. Can anyone else offer advice, experience on this matter?   [End]
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Most likely an e-coli infection b/c that is the bacteria most commonly found in the intestinal tract. Yes, see a doctor and always wear a condom during anal sex-then discard and use new one if switching to vaginal. You may also get a bladder infection with this. Additionally, he may get a bladder infection too...sorry for the bad news. Get some antibiotics!   [End]
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My husband and I are wanting to do an erotic couples massage. We have never done anything like this before and don’t really know what to expect or how to ”request” things. What we are looking for is a situation where we both get a massage but he then watches while I get a ”bit more” from a female. I am not talking about strapping things on and stuff, rather some sexy massaging, some light fingering and a bit of oral while he watches. Has anyone had an experience such as this that you could share? I need some imput fast as this is one of our Valentine’s gift to eachother. thanks!   [End]
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kind of hard on the ”newbies”, don’t ya think, Wrenn?   [End]
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