And if it is okay, it’d be best to use ones with spermicide right?   [End]
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So here’s another question I have (all my prior girlfriends have had the shot, and I had only used the condom the one time before this current girlfriend) so I have another question: My current girlfriend and I have currently been doing the woman on top position for the past few times, and on a few occasions I’ve reached a cllmax and came in the condom I was wearing. She kept going irregardless, and then afterwards I took off the condom. Now my question is: is this a really bad idea or is it okay?   [End]
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I was going to mention that. Try working your PC muscles too, the muscles that help stop your urine flow when you’re going to the bathroom. I started doing them about two weeks or so ago and I’m already noticing more control. You can also pull down on your testicles whenever you feel yourself close, as the testicles draw up into the body when you’re ready to ejaculate so pulling them down a bit helps some as well. I read about another idea that I’m trying out now: actually going through the act of masturbation, but stopping just short of an orgasm, and seeing how long you can possibly ...
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I’m pretty sure it probably was mostly due to the masturbation, as we just had sex on Thursday and I had no problems making her happy ;) I also tried out these Trojan condoms that warm up during sexual intercourse that helped a lot more actually, as it warms up during intercourse and makes it feel a lot more like you’re not using a condom at all. It’s something else, I recommend it.   [End]
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He probably actually needs a smaller one than a larger one. If the condom is too large it will slide off more easily than if it is a snug fit. I’m of an average size but a good bit thicker than normal so mine don’t ever really move around too much. What size is he length and width wise? That usually helps, then you can get an idea.   [End]
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Thanks for that. We just started dating and I had been single for a while, so it became a sort of a habit. Thanks again for the advice and the personal story.   [End]
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Thanks to you and Ev, that sounds like the best advice.   [End]
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I thought only those in at least their 40s were at risk from ED. Also, what myths do you mean?   [End]
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Thanks Ev, I was kind of figuring that was the problem.   [End]
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I’m 23 years old and I’ve only engaged in intercourse with a few women, so I’m not sure how commonplace this is. The first time I was with a girl I foolishly did not use protection yet I managed to perform pretty well. Months ago I was with another girl, however, and used a condom then. It worked for a short while but then I began to lose my erection. Just a few days ago, I was with my new girlfriend for the first time and the same thing happened. I’m pretty worried as I have no idea what’s wrong with me, if this is normal, or if there’s anything I can do about it. I’m in good shap ...
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