Hi, once again and I would like to thank everyone who has written. You all have such words of wisdom. There is a lot of truth in some of what you speak Pb3046. I’m very glad I turned to this forum for advice. Sometimes when one is in the middle of an emotional situation, it is hard to see the forest for the trees. I’m thinking a whole lot clearer. My number one obligation is to my children the youngest being 10. I have to see him grown and that means 8 years. I do need to make it the best marriage it can be, regardless of what happens after the 8 years. So this would be the time t ...
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Thank you all for your words of advice and encouragement. You have all given me much to think about. Harley girl, I have been visiting this forum for quite a while and see that you have recomended that Dr’s Light his fire etc before. I got one of her books out of the Library and have been working on in. One instance I would like to share is. I feel that my relationship with my husband suffers if I do not put 210% in. The other day I placed a paste it note in his wallet reading ”I love you”. I was very intrested to see what the response would be. Well he came home, I was making ...
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It is a long story - I was born in Africa and moved to Canada for a man at the age of 24. My problem is - When I was 19 I dated a guy in Africa who was amazing in every sense of the word. I loved him very deeply, however I was a very head strong young lady and had goals of going overseas, which this fellow did not share. So I eventully toured Europe and met another man who was from Canada. This other man and I continued a longdistance relationship for a year. He came to Africa and we toured the country together. Everything seemed wonderful. He took me back to Canada where I have ...
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