I read this whole thread, and kinda deep-sighed over some of this, and felt that I wanted to add to it. I have read several self-deprecating statements that you have written, and these statements are very familiar to me, as I spoke in the language that you use for years. I will give you an example, and mind you, I am paraphrasing:”I am such a nice guy, and women don’t appreciate it *deep sigh*, I don’t care a thing about myself, just so SHE’S happy *deep sigh*, I know, I know, it’s all my fault, I should know better, but I don’t, I am just a man *deep, sad sigh*,I will simply carry on with ...
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