Hi,
My girlfriend recently got extremely jealous when I had a female roommate move in. There seemed no alternative but to ask the new roommate to relocate. I was not attracted to her at all, and she seemed to be the type of person that would work well as a roommate and possibly even as a friend to my girlfriend. I was really challenged about having to ask the roommate to move, though we all moved past it. The roommate while living in my house repaired a bed comforter by hand with her sewing kit. This having been discovered by my girlfriend made her furious and recreated the jealousy again, even though the roommate had moved several weeks ago. It created an argument for us and I got angry that this type of jealousy could continue even after the person had moved. I feel I am in an unstable relationship and have put a lot of effort into trying to keep the balance in a situation that may or may not find secure footing and balance. Any suggestions? I have never quite been in a situation like this.