You don't know me at all.

You would be wise to learn to speak to people instead of preaching to them. You don't seem to see your own power and godliness and beauty and mine too. All you can do is to try to convert me to your beliefs. I do feel sorry for you.

This is a public debate forum, why are you trying to convince me to go away?

It appears to me that you are so brainwashed with regards to religion that you can't stand to see any opinions other than your own. To use your frame of reference to give advice to another person you don't know who's making a life decision is incomprehensible. You know nothing of the people involved. The OP is more than capable of making the right decision for his choice of a life partner.

The world is a huge place. There is certainly room for many millions and billions of other points of view than yours.

The Christian religion was created by a bunch of men who wanted to control other people, especially women and children, in my opinion.

Have a look at the work of Ray Mouton if you want to see an example. This just one example of many. Why would I believe the teachings of churches that promote such horrors within their own walls? Why would I support such wickedness financially? Such things are rampant wherever there is money and power.

Virtually every organized religion teaches their followers to go out and convert other people so that more money and power will come into their coffers.

I look not at a person's religious beliefs, I look at how they treat other people and how they live their lives.