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#13345
17 y
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Ok, It's kind of wierd, Ok December I ended a long 2 year "Fling" with this guy... Him and I have been best of friends for almost 12 years, became intimate back in 04... I was recently upset with some news about him being with someone (Relationship) since Novemeber!!! that is the reason why I stopped it in Dec, he did not want to commit to me!
Next Guy...
I met him through a friend in DEC 06, yes same month! I thought he would be different but I gussed wrong! 4 months later I realized I am in the same Predicament, this one was just weird! he claimed me as a "girlfriend" but acted totally opposite... I felt like i was doing more in the so called relationship than he was! I am so frustrated right now, I am hurt, ashamed of my actions, and even ready to give up on all relationships! So what do I do next? besides move on!?!Advertisement
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- Don't like nice guys #77290
17 y
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MoreThis is a reply to # 849,148Ahhhh, you girls. I'll bet if a really nice guy came along and treated you like a queen you'd reject him. You'd have no respect for him because he treats you well. You'd think he was a wuss because he attempts to make you happy. You girls don't like nice guys, they're too boring, they don't excite you, they don't reject you. They accept you for who you are and try to improve your life by them being in it. You girls don't like that. You're attracted to the dangerous guy, the guy who pushes you around a bit and rejects you. A guy who's tough and wouldn't even listen to something a lowly female might say.
Yu're stuck girl and you'll remain stuck because nice guys are just plain too boring for you. Got to have that excitment.
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This is a reply to # 849,334It's funny you say that about "You girls" I guess you're talking of me? Well if so, then you are in the same boat! You like Women that reject you!
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- Re: What to do next? askmelissa
17 y
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This is a reply to # 849,148Congratulate yourself on having good intuition the first time around. You knew that he was unavailable so you ended the relationship. Good job!
Now you need to look at why you are attracted to unavailable men. Was your father or mother emotionally distant in any way? We tend to attract (and be attracted) to people who have certain qualities that our parents have, even if we don't like those qualities. When we are willing to take a look at that, we can heal those pattern and attract partners who are emotionally available and commit to us.
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- Don't like nice guys #77290
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