I would consider yourself before 'others' when it comes to healing yourself.
If I recall you've had some pretty major health issues at hand and one MAJOR way of caring/loving yourself is to allow yourself to heal. The IP program will bring healing if you go with it.
I say this because the emotional component of my health issues has to do with always putting others first as well as their opinions and not taking care of myself. I am a very compassionate person so giving and caring for others comes easy for me but no longer to my own demise.
Doing this fast and cleanse for the 1st time in April gave me a sense of truly loving myself enough to forgo all social stuff, negativity from others, lack of understanding ect. I literally had to change my life to accomadate being on the IP program. Was it worth it? Absolutely. Staring Round 2 today.
There is a reason you committed to it in the first place. Honor Yourself.