Re: I mourn this.....

 Molly, dear heart, what a bunch of horsesh*t!  I disagree with the article in that a narcissist (particularly, a malignant narcissist) doesn't have any choices or even a rudimentary understanding of the damage that they cause!  Moreover, I disagree that most narcissists are male - on the contrary, I notice more NPD behaviors among women, especially young females.  

"Jerk" .....yah..... just doesn't fill the bill! 

LOVE YA!!!  :D