"I'd rather be an old fart than a young dick head."
Thinks I: Doesn't one develop into the other?
Jerks come in all forms and with all sorts of form. I recognise myself a jerk in the eyes of some. Hopefully they are correct.
Finding yourself a jerk raises your roof or your vision.
Few of us have the presence of mind and none of us probably has the vision to recognise when we appear a jerk in the eyes of all others. For me the bigger lesson is simple:
Being judgmental has more to do with yourself than any jerk,
like most social characterisations and put downs. An old family joke lies here: ""Jerkmental"". All puns intended.
136970 I laughed my head off at both your posts, thanks. T2