Don't know what to think. A couple observations maybe, questions, nothing more. You took your brother with you, do you rely on him quite often? What were the eccentric man of outstanding "whiteness" and black man and his son arguing about? Was this a racial thing? Are you set apart somehow? The movie, GRAVE- as in serious? or the noun. Were these women working so hard to achieve something of GRAVE importance? Or were they working themselves into an early grave? Bodily waste, waste of bodies? I'm really tired and rambling tonight. So I will stop with the third degree for now... that is unless you find any of these questions helpful to remembering/deciphering more.