Re: I beg your pardon! I disagree!!!!!!!

I personally feel that "unconditional love" is the biggest bunch of s*** I have ever tried to digest. My ex used to fling that one at me. Frankly, I am conditional. If you treat me like s***, I probably won't love you.

I am curious as to your personal success in relationship, and I suspect you are enjoying the "shark role" of sneaking up on unsuspecting swimmers and exploding out of the water, shocking and eating everyone in site. Your advice is dangerous and unhealthy.

The ONLY good I see in this is the idea of accepting who he is. If she cannot, then she should move on. She should NOT stay and provide him with a different bed partner every night blahblahblah. Dogs sniff each others butts and climb on indiscriminately, man was charged with learning to overcome his instincts and to rise above as a spiritual being. It's far easier to use that old "men have to have variety" line, than to learn to love and commit at a depth deeper than the base instinct to nail what walks by. Caveman crap.

I had one of you, and "shark" is an aptly applied term.