we got pregnet no more the 2 months into the relationship.then we moved out of state me leaving my family behind.we moved to pa where his mom lives.well my son is now 3 so we have lived here for 4 years .he went to work and i stayed home with the kids never going out without him.he was my only adult contact.i developed anxiety that being said now i have made a friend finally,but he is jealous of her he makes me feel guilty for having someone else besides him.its very hard for me to talk about my feelings i usally keep everything inside well i just told him a deep dark secret i have never told anyone (i was raped). in conversation my friend told me she was molested and i proceded to tell her my story.i told my boyfriend that i told her and he got mad at me.he says that was a slap in his face.he feels like it took me 4yrs to tell him and it took me nomore then a month to tell my friend.my friend and i have very simular personalities.she comes over almost everyday she gives me a ride to drop off my daughter to school in between droping her off and picking her up which is no more then 2 & half hrs we go out shopping or out to eat we enjoy each others company.so with going out more often i'VE gotten over my anxiety.

he feels as if she stealing his thunder she unknownly helped with my anxiety.hes a good man i dont want to make him seem like a nut job he far from that just for the past two months we have been fighting alot he feels as if im changing i dont see it.maybe more out going but thats how i was when we met everything changed when i stayed home he got so usto me being home that he is having a hard time with me going out.(its almost as if he is depressed)he doesnt feel like im the one anymore. he says he wants me to be.he says i dont make him feel special anymore like i dont need him.and i do i love him.am i not doing a good job showing it and if im not i dont know how to with out it making him feel like im over doing it. im at a loss i want to move past it.but some how we cant. i can see it in his eyes he feels hurt his self esteem has gone down i dont know how to help him i dont know how to fix the problem this is gonna be a little graphic but were all adults last night we were gonna have sex but i couldnt get wet i dont know why, he took it as an insult and got very hurt over it this is the first time that happen he feel like he ruined our relationship because of his jealousy and that i have lost intrest in him and he's not doing it for me and thats defintly not the case but no matter what i say i cant seem to change his mind i feel like im destroying him please help me.