i am not passing judgement on you. i am teaching you to understand and explore.
just because you say you want to practice your faith and loving your neighbor is part of that. loving is accepting. so what i am saying is that the reason you think being gay is wrong is because you were taught that by another.
your perception is judgement because you are in judgement of others..and with the unsavory past that you got over and didnt like...im sure there was someone running at the mouth about how terrible you were and it made you feel like crap.