i've noticed that twice on this discussion topic #23668 has been blamed for her failure (!) in her marriage, blamed for having the same problem that makes for a high divorce rate, etc. It really is too much!
The thing is all this condemnation really has made me feel like maybe women are not as far along in helping and supporting eachother as I thought. The amount of flack that the original poster has received has bummed me out. I feel like an apology is due #23668 because the responses have been so unsupportive to her.