Re: Can't go for a round 2 anymore. Help!

doesn't sound like there is anything wrong with you... just sounds like you need to be a little more in tune... perhaps it may take some time to adjust... but...

if you really put all your focus/attention into pleasing her... try being so totally into her that you are aware of precisely where she is at... her breathing... her heartbeat... her rhythm... and all the while... the more you are into her... the easier it is for you to restrain your excitement... and being absolutely focused on building/stoking her fire... in tune with...listening/feeling/waiting on her cresendo... and when it happens you will be unable to contain yourself any longer when she reaches her peak... and "the two will come together as one"... afterall... isn't that what true love is all about...

when you really become more tuned into her... then you'll know how to whisper those little sweet nothings of encouragement to get her to climb higher... and higher... and higher... building the fire a little hoter... and hotter... till neither of you are able to hold back any longer... and that is when you get the absolute max from her... then... neither of you will be able to even think seconds... there simply want be any need to... you will both be drained/spent...

the bummer for me is that after making love i feel so relaxed that all i want to do is go to sleep... yet it has stimulated her so much that she is wide awake and wants to talk... so... i fight off the sleepy feeling and stay awake and talk to her...
but... after we have been talking for awhile i become wide awake and she goes to sleep... leaving me hoot owl awake with no one to talk to... bummer huh...

oh well...
no one said life would always be perfect...
lol...
;-)