You sound so much like me! Our symptoms are so very similar. I'd be very interested to know how often you poop - . I've been cleansing and changing my diet - it's a slow road but i do see improvments. I've done a couple of flushes and i'm doing colonics and three-lac for candida right now! I do believe cleansing is the answer as well as a significant change in diet! Many foods can be contributing to your symptoms. Sugar,simple carbohydrates,wheat,milk,etc.
You can e-mail if you ever just want to talk. I'll be 36 in a few months and have had adhd symptoms since i was a child. Sounds like you had a life that your trying to regain and i'm trying to find the life i've never had! If you ever want to talk you can e-mail me at trakar34@yahoo.com