no you see it does matter. because if you say things like that it is a reflection of charachter. name or not its who you are.
which your further illustrate by labeling settling as degrading.
if you say you dont like fat one...just leave it at that.
no need to act like you are talking about some standard.
and what makes you shallow and a jerk was that you even thought about asking a "fat" girl out only to dump her.
btw what kind of guys do you know that wont tolerate weight gain?
thats just wierd to me.
i mean i can understand not wanting someone to go full blown round.
did you ever think about what girls have to tolerate in you? looks and whats on the inside?
all i am saying if you worked on your inside a little bit maybe you might be able to hook up with someone that worked on thier outside a bit.