I'm the one who acts like I have it all right, lol. At any rate we are all changing. God is working on all of us. I think we need to encourage one another to allow the Holy Spirit to change us into the person Jesus wants us to be. We are not encouraging to someone who we are insulting and bringing up past posts to rub their nose in, or to prove to others how bad someone is. Can't we forget the past and love and encourage one another in the Lord? You never know what work the Holy Spirit did in any one person today. The past is not always a good indicator of what the person is today. We are all growing.