That's just the best way to deal with the ridiculousness that goes on here, and the rest of the internet world too. Have fun with it! Don't take it personally! Tomi didn't embarrass me. I don't care. I have far more serious problems in my life to worry about stupid stuff like that.
Now I know it's been different for you Tansy because some things got really personal because of information shared through private messages. That's different so I'm not talking about that. I would not be happy either if personal things I didn't want shared were shared publicly. But I wasn't involved with all that so I don't even know enough to really talk about it. What I do know is that you sure can't trust everyone you meet on the internet, so be very careful. Choose your friends wisely and also what you reveal to them.